Velvet Lips

how to aviod sex?

Velvet Lips responded on 10/18/2012

If you are trying to avoid sex, you have to think about the reasons why you are trying to avoid it. Is it because it's uncomfortable or is it because you aren't into your partner anymore? If you are just starting to date someone and they want to have sex and you don't want to, I would just have that conversation and tell them that you would like to wait to have sex or that you don't feel comfortable having sex or having sex with them in particular. It's going to be up to them whether they want to understand it or not. If the reasons are more personal, I would suggest going to therapy or getting a sex coach (like me!) and getting down to the bottom of why you are trying to avoid sex and come up with some solutions!

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