Velvet Lips

I am in a same sex relationship with a woman who cares very little for regular sex. I don't think her interest will EVER change. Please tell me what I can do to satisfy my creative desire for intimacy

Velvet Lips responded on 01/02/2012

I wish I had a little bit more information about the relationship and your sex life so that I can give some specific answers, but I'm guessing that "regular sex" means enveloping/penetrative (missionary) sex. If you don't think her interest will change, why don't you try other things that are just as creative? You can venture into swinging or BDSM or role-playing. At my workshops, I generally bring an erotic activities worksheet. You can see what you two have in common and start to explore new and creative ways to be turned on!

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